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You're absolutely correct that such tropes only reinforce what is socially acceptable and culturally relevant. Reducing Asian-American female fictional characters to such narrow clichés ultimately hurts us. Unfortunately, I was an Asian girl who *did* grow up feeling odd and eerie, an angsty and misunderstood poet and novelist, whom nobody ever crushed on at the height of teenage puppy-love politics. I wanted to literally *be* Luna Lovegood, which is hard when you're Korean-American in a bumfuck Midwest suburb of about 4,000 people.

If I may, I'd like to gently push back against your point on how WAACs can never be read as "legible people". Nobody is raised the exact same way, and maybe this is solely the product of my own upbringing, but "succeeding" at Westernization has never been worth anything to me. I relished being Korean, and if anyone laughed at my food or made a North Korea joke (more Asian diaspora clichés!) I would bristle defiantly, or strike back if provoked. But I also dealt with it by leaning into my own strangeness, my potential for capriciousness. I loved movies like "Amelie" and "I'm a Cyborg, but That's OK". For me, the traits of these main characters were a vehicle to imagine, then approach, a version of myself that was closer to my ideal– which was a girl with creative ideas and unique thoughts, who always had something fascinating to say.

I cringe when I think about how annoying, theatrical, and self-absorbed I must have been. I see all the ways that it backfired on me. Despite that, I think the "quirkiness" I strived to recreate, helped people (classmates and teachers alike) to witness and understand that I had depth, that I possessed creative ideas and interesting viewpoints, that I was a person beyond my race and not some blank slate for some broad sense of Asianness. Being inscrutable actually freed me, because the people around me were required to know me and figure me out, or at least compelled to try.

The key danger in this trope is dehumanization, so maybe my experience is not quite the same as what you write about. I'm unfamiliar with Mantis since I'm not a Marvel fan. Lilly's character is so one-dimensional and lacks the subtlety to be even slightly funny. Miss Casey is hardly even a person. Also, I don't mean this to be a "gotcha!", but artists like Regina Spektor, Bjork, FKA twigs, and Lady Gaga when they first came on the scene were subject to similar mischaracterizations. I'm not sure this is strictly limited to Asian-American artists; most art created outside the confines of whatever cultural wave is trendy will receive this attitude from general audiences.

Okay, now can I blame my lack of Substack notoriety on how my "genius and depth" is masked by the "oddity of [my] presentation, mannerisms, and speech"? Looking forward to your next post!

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Taste by KL/ Ka Lynn Robinson's avatar

It’s interesting because black women want to break free of the sassiness trope and be seen as weird. Being in these kind of roles would be praised. It’s interesting what is oppressive for some of us, is freedom to others.

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